My name's Em.

“She never looked nice. She looked like art, and art wasn’t supposed to look nice; it was supposed to make you feel something.”
Park; Elearnor & Park by Rainbow Rowell

Why has society drilled into us that appearance is more important then character?
Why is it that ‘real’ beauty is irrelevant and conventional beauty is what stands.
Why does society dictate the way in which we live our lives?
Why is kneeling on the floor of a bathroom and sticking our fingers down our throats acceptable?
Why is that what amounts to beauty?
Small, big, thin, fat, skinny, large, short, tall.
Who cares?
Live your life.
Make it full.
Make it wonderful.
Be happy with who you are.
Just be happy.
Don’t realise at 60 or 75 that you wasted your life worrying about how the world perceives you.
Don’t worry about whether that boy walking past you on the street thinks your thighs jiggle when you walk.
Don’t worry if your ‘junk’ isn’t big enough.
Don’t worry if those girls at the beach think you’re tummy is flabby.
Who cares if your thighs touch?
Who cares if they don’t?
Fall in love.
Fall out of love.
Break someone’s heart and watch and wait as someone breaks yours.
Find happiness in the quiet but also live for the loud.
Fill your lungs with air and thank god, or whoever, that you’re alive.
And that you’re living your life.
And live it to the fullest.
Take every moment and every situation and make the most of it.
Seize the day.
Seize the night.
Seize your life.
Smile, as wide as you can and don’t worry about looking stupid.
Laugh until you cry.
Run until you can’t breath.
Cry until your pillow’s soaked.
Find strength in your weakest moments.
And find weakness in your strength.
Be brave.
Be kind.
And just fucking live.

"That’s the best revenge of all: happiness. Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good fucking life."


you’re a hypocrite if you ‘love’ animals but still eat them.

you’re a hypocrite if you fight to stop testing on animals but you still eat animals.

you’re a hypocrite if you boycott zoo’s, aquariums, & sea world but still eat animals.

you’re a hypocrite if you want to stop the harm that comes to animal but still contribute to it.


Just be fucking honest about how you feel about people while you’re alive.